Jo Mikan

04 Jan

When Getting Divorced

So I had a conversation with a dear friend today, whose husband left shortly after their 9th wedding anniversary. It is all better now and his own life and he wants a divorce at some point. He thought about the filing of this right before Christmas, children, but did not have Christmas because of the expense. How noble of him to wait!
I do not know how one can simply walk on their families. I had a word to my friend, selfish. He left for himself, he was not happy, it is now healing and will not return to the past. It is all about him.
What about wedding vows? What is the alliance that you do with that other person to care for them and honor them.
I pray for blessing on it blessing in his life. It is a wonderful gift and the person and deserves much more. I do not understand how anyone can ignore these wishes and look only for themselves. He ignored his wife and children. I am baffled by the whole thing. I can not even imagine what my friend was concerned. Sometimes I just want to slap this kind of head.
She told me that God has really helped her through this and we are both comments, we do not know where we would be without him. When the crisis in the world, it is man is our only hope. I firmly believe that I would not be in this life if not for God. I was so devestated by the loss of my father that I wanted to die. I knew that if God had a plan for my life. My friend is not as painful as the loss of that God has a plan for her life and her children. Want to know which includes your spouse, but she knows, with or without him, it gave their lives for a reason!

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